Understanding Alzheimer's

Growing up, I never really had any grandparents. My dad's parents had both passed away by the time I was born, as had my mom's dad. Mom's mom was in a nursing home all the way across the country, struggling with Alzheimer's. I didn't know her at all, I only remember meeting her once when I was ten, before she too passed away.

So, understandably I always felt I missed out. I never got to be around older people and experience all their jewels of wisdom and insight on life. Truly, my first experience with the golden generation came when waiting tables as a 15 and 16 year old. Without a doubt, those elderly couples that came in to Perko's Coffee Cup were my favorite customers. They were sweet, considerate, appreciative and always sincerely interested in me as a person, not just as their server.

Now that I'm all grown up, some of my most treasured friendships are with "older" neighbors and friends. Obviously my parents and older relatives top my list although I still can't really admit they are senior citizens.

Ironically, several of the articles I've written over the years have been on Seniors. One of the recent ones was on Alzheimer's...something I really knew little about. In talking to my expert, a local internist who specializes in geriatric medicine, I learned what a devastating disease Alzheimer's can be and how important it is to be able to recognize the signs of dementia vs. occasional memory loss.

As children, friends, neighbors and work associates of "older" people, it's so vital that we not discount symptoms such as:

Difficulty completing familiar tasks at home, at work or at leisure;
Confusion with time or place;
New problems with words in speaking or writing;
Misplacing things and losing the ability to retrace steps; and
Changes in mood and personality.

While there is currently no cure for Alzheimer's, a correct diagnosis can help our loved ones receive the care and support they need and deserve. For all the treasured jewels they have provided us over the years, it's the least we can do. And pray someone does the same for us in time, right?